Friday, May 26, 2017
The Game Is Sold Not Told

I Hope You’re Not Fucking Someone You’re Not Friends With

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I’ll be honest with you ok, I got a body count. I’ve been fucking since I was 12, well not exactly, let me rephrase that, I’ve be TRYING TO FUCK since I was 12. See, I didn’t know where the hole was, but I thought I was doing something because I felt the friction of her skin. When I finally felt what the inside of the pussy felt like, I could tell the difference immediately. It was so warm, and wet, sighs! I loved it, I was addicted, my pussy friction days were now a thing of the past, cause once I mastered where the hole was, it was like my cock had a pussy GPS, because I could stick it in without even looking, I found heaven.

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Over the years, I’ve had threesomes, one night stands, swinger club fun, group sex, I mean you name it I’ve done it. When it comes to my sex life, I have endless stories, some good some bad but what I realized the most is, sex doesn’t mean shit if you and the person you’re having sex with aren’t friends.

 

People suck and fuck, but they aren’t friends though, and to me that is insane, cause basically what people are saying is, a person meets our physical requirements, but they fall short in the friend department. Listen if a person falls short in the friend department, there is no way in hell they should be considered a sexual partner.

 

Do you really think it’s ok to share your body with someone who isn’t your friend? I mean think about that for a second. We actually find it acceptable to have sex with no condom, lick each other’s bodies intensely, and experience total vulnerability, without even knowing for sure if the person we are sleeping with is our friend or not. Usually we find out way after, by then it’s too late.

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HOW DO YOU KNOW IF SOMEONE WILL BE A GOOD FRIEND TO YOU?

 

Just because someone is a shitty BF/GF…. HUSBAND/WIFE doesn’t mean they are a terrible friend. Being in a relationship is very exhausting, not everyone is built for that, but that doesn’t mean someone wouldn’t be an excellent friend. Personally, I don’t believe there is a relationship dynamic that supersedes friendship, of course people disagree with me, but from my observation, if friendship is the core, anything after that is just an expression of the friendship. Marriage and sex, are just ways to express our friendship with each other.

Before we give each other titles, and have sex with each other, we must first qualify if the person would make a great friend, and the best way to do this is to, pay attention to what kind of friend the individual is to themselves.

  • ARE THEY INTERESTING: Is the person interesting? This is important because if they are interesting you’ll benefit greatly. Aligning yourself with someone that’s interesting, would allow you to get a different perspective on life because you’ll be in constant learning. Interesting people have hobbies, affiliated with social groups, and are always looking to dive into something fresh and new. If they do these things solo, your presence will add to the experience as long your attitude is positive and you remain open-minded. Interesting people hate close minded people.
  • DO THEY INVEST IN THEMSELVES: When a person invests in themselves, it means they take the friendship with themselves very serious? There are many ways they can invest into themselves, that’s subjective, but the investment is something that will make them better. When a person is constantly focused on getting better, that’s a great sign for you. If they take their self-improvement serious, they will take yours serious as well.
  • HOW DO THEY TREAT OTHERS: Pay attention to the way the person treats other people cause that’s a great way to know how they’ll handle you. There isn’t a light switch a person cuts on and off when it comes to handling people. I’m not saying they have to be so nice to people that they get abused, no. What I am saying is, treating people fairly cost nothing, and if you see that their inconsistent in treating people fairly, you’ll be a fool to think that their inconsistency won’t be an elephant in the room in your relationship.
  • WHAT DO THEY SEE IN YOU: We all have weak areas, things about us that need improvement? We also have things that are great about us that we haven’t cultivated yet, and if a person see’s those things in you that you haven’t even took the time to develop, that means they pay attention to detail. They have this quality because they take the time to pay attention to detail in their own life, so when they look at you, they make sure they see the best things about you, and only the best.

 

THE GAME

 

Many people disagree with me, when I say, there is no relationship higher than friendship, not even marriage. People think marriage is the height of a relationship, but this isn’t true. People have this idea of marriage, but that idea only exist inside of people’s heads. The marriage is only an expression of the friendship. Friendship is the core, and the outer layer, it’s the above and the below, it’s the beginning and the end. It’s not possessive, it’s not judgmental, and when you’re really someone’s friend you always want what’s best for them even if what’s best for them isn’t you.

Love is very blinding, it isn’t logical, and it’s hard to be rational and objective when we love people. That’s why it’s important that we sleep with people that are our friends, especially if the two of you have great sexual chemistry.

 

THE GAME 2.0

 

Some people have intense sex with each other and that totally ruins everything because the relationship may be built on infatuation, fascination, and slight admiration, but it isn’t built on realization. This is why when people stop having sex, they “EXPOSE” each other’s secrets, and say mean things about each other. How do you say mean things about each other today, but you were just having raw sex yesterday? THAT WHACK.

 

THE GAME 3.0

 

If you have sex, it’s because your great friends. Friends first, and understanding , emotional maturity and emotional intelligence. Friends first, lovers later

 

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I want to thank you for stopping by even if you don't agree with the things I say. I don't write for people to agree, I write to offer a different perspective, so If I got you to consider a thought you never considered before, then I've done my job.

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